Go to Prom With Me!

It's that time again where people are buying dresses, renting tuxes and making reservations for dinner. What could possibly bring about these events? One word says it all: prom. It seems that it's every girl's dream to go to prom and parade around in a fancy dress on the arm of some guy who asked her. But in order for that to happen, one of you has to ask the other to this momentous occasion. If you recall my post a while back, Acception of Rejection, I stated that I didn't really enjoy school dances and, having gone to a prom last year I wasn't terribly impressed. However, one aspect I do love about prom especially is seeing how people ask. Asking someone to prom can nerve wracking and exciting at the same time, but it's usually an enjoyable thing for both people involved. If you tend to be someone who is nervous about asking, here are some tips that might help you nail a date with that special someone.

1. Ask in a clever/cute way
There are numerous ways to ask a girl to prom. While asking them in the halls is all well and good, it can easily be improved upon by going the extra mile. Make it something that plays to your strengths and appeals to their interests. For instance, if she likes music and you are musically inclined then write her a song or modify a song to ask her and perform it for her. This works well as it can be performed as publicly or privately as you wish. Not to mention she'll probably be impressed that you took the time to create come up with something as creative as that.

2. Plan it out
No matter how you decide to ask them, make sure you have just a basic plan of how it will go. Rehearse it in your head or even in front of a mirror. Whatever helps you, do it. It also wouldn't hurt to have a backup plan in case initial planning goes awry.

3. Be confident
This is perhaps one of the most important points of asking your date. Even if you are deathly scared of asking them, act as if you are the most confident person in the world. Wear something that boosts your confidence level. Pick a day of the week that makes you feel happy. However, there's a difference between confident and cocky, so try not to be the latter.

4. Don't be afraid of rejection
I know you may feel like I've beaten you over the head with this one, but it really does apply to many scenarios. The best way I'd describe it is this: convince yourself that they will say yes, but be prepared for them to say no. It will give you an extra boost to your confidence and ready yourself for any rejections.